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Sep
15

Stop jealousy from ruining your relationship

Posted by Heri Susilo

Jealousy will drive you crazy. If you are in its grip is almost unbearable. Jealousy can destroy the hands down a good relationship.
If you have a boyfriend or husband openly flirts with other women or that you know is cheating, you should see the stone not to feel hurt and betrayed to make. Here’s jealousy is a natural reaction. Jealousy, I am referring to fear, not facts, a green monster that they are based to create your own fantasy.
I have worked with many women, the excuses for their behavior was jealous. You try to justify their actions when they spy on their husbands as if they are not responsible for their jealousy. But the truth is jealousy feels bad. It is unattractive and kills love in a relationship.
In your jealousy gone too far?
If he:
1) You find yourself constantly checks Facebook on your husband or Twitter page.
2) You can not stop to check his call history and listen to his phone messages behind his back.
If you answered yes to all these questions, you are in trouble. If you start messing around in the personal affairs of the rights, you lose control of your dignity and your pride. Their relationship today lacks one of the most important qualities to thrive: trust. So what can you do to get rid of jealousy, that sucks the energy and happiness in your life? You must at the root of jealousy. If you are attracted to your husband, you believe that even other women, and can be frightening, especially when you doubt your own worth. Right now you are lost. So how do you change your irrational jealousy?
Positive measures that increase your feelings of self-esteem and self-esteem. Negative actions bring about negative emotions, if you feel guilty, to find remorse and shame.
If you do not trust you, you can not trust the people in your life. If you do not love you, do you not know that you are loved.
Be careful of what you should do to make your life fulfilling and satisfying and catch. As you begin to trust you, create your own sense of emotional security that nothing can shake. Her jealousy escapes, and you can place a much deeper and love more confidence.

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